Which PGA Tour players are the friendliest, most charitable, all-around nicest, even when no one's looking?
It's the question you ask us most. More than, "If you could play one course for the rest of your life... ?" More than, "If money were no object, what driver would you... ?" Even more than, "One trip: Ireland or Scotland?" A simple question, lobbed every day from the grass roots to anyone with an all-access pass. Not fair, really. I mean, who are we, God?
But irresistible: Is he a good guy?
We note variations when you are already leaning yay or nay:
"He strikes me as someone who could be a total pain in the ass. Am I wrong?" Or, "Please don't tell me ____ is a jerk. He's a good guy, isn't he? My kid loves him."
Your kid's probably right. But just to be sure, here is the official list, the Good Guys of the PGA Tour. (No Good Gals at this point; that will be a separate list.)
Many of the people we polled, especially administrators, reminded us that golfers tend to be polite, cooperative, decent—particularly when compared with other professional athletes. At the same time, some do manifest the pettiness, self-absorption and numbing arrogance that characterize the worst of some other sports. As one tournament official said about a popular major winner: "He can give you a rash in a heartbeat."
These Good Guys don't operate that way. They tip—generously. They thank volunteers for being there. They read pro-am partners' putts. They sign autographs when they don't feel like it, for more than hour at a time on some days.
Rick Roberts, head of locker-room operations at Bay Hill, recalls helping Graeme McDowell load his car after the 2012 Arnold Palmer Invitational. McDowell had been paired with Tiger Woods on Sunday and shot 74 to lose by five shots. Just as McDowell was about to pull out, a woman and her daughter stopped and asked him for an autograph. McDowell rolled down the window and signed. Then the mom asked if he wouldn't mind posing for a picture with her daughter. "No problem," McDowell said. He put the car in park, got out and posed for a picture. "He was so disappointed in his play that day, but he didn't turn his back on a young fan," Roberts says. "He could have just scribbled something and taken off, but he took the time to give that little girl and her mom a nice memory."
The tour's Good Guys remember where they came from. "That's difficult," says one caddie we interviewed. "It's difficult in all sports. People throw money and fame at you. It's hard to remember the way it used to be."
Establishing criteria for this list, we sought the advice of caddies, tour officials, volunteers, equipment reps and sponsors. Together they told us that the really good guys on tour are:
1. Charitable—not just signing checks, but involved.
2. Good to the "little people" such as volunteers, locker-room attendants, drivers.
4. Nice when no one's looking.
5. Role models/good ambassadors for the sport.
6. Media-friendly. Or at least professionally tolerant.
7. Able to keep their entourages friendly.
The model, of course, is Arnold Palmer. Only once do we recall meeting a golfer who didn't like Arnold Palmer. There was a story, not worth retelling, but this person's comment proved that no one goes undefeated in the Good Guy stakes. Nevertheless, given that Palmer leads the league by 50 games, he'll be our model. And though there is a theory among some writers and fans that it comes so naturally to Arnold he should get points subtracted, we don't buy it.
A friend tells the story of seeing Palmer at Augusta a few years back, outdoors in a brief stand-up meeting with one of his staff. A fan approaches and says, "Arnie, can I have your autograph?" Arnie says politely that he's in the middle of a business conversation and will gladly sign in a couple of minutes. For a second, he turns back to the conversation. And then, our friend says, he sees Palmer stop talking, look into the distance for a second, turn away from his aide and step over to the fan. "Absolutely; what can I do for you?"
That little midswing correction demonstrated to our friend that being generous—and Arnie—is not automatic, and that no one works harder at it than Arnie does. "You could almost read his thought process on his face," says our friend. "It was like, Wait a minute. What am I doing here?"
"Arnold set a very high bar," says sport psychologist Bob Rotella, who has listened to some clients anguish over living on the corner of fan-friendly and competitive. "I've had guys say, 'I'd love to be like that. But it's not really my personality, Doc.' Come Wednesday, some of these guys are in a funnel. They're all business."