San Diego: Home Of The Open And A Grudge Match
I've been answering this question a lot lately. "How was the Masters?"
It was fantastic. For the first time since 1997 I watched it from my sofa at home. I missed being there, missed my colleagues and missed the Sunday roars from Amen Corner but from all that I've read, a lot of people missed those roars, silenced by a long tough golf course and a stiff Sunday breeze.
I've also been answering this question. "Will you be in San Diego for the Open?"
No. As the travel editor I'm no longer needed to help cover the tour. We have a small army of writers, editors and photographers who take care of the major coverage for Golf Digest, Golf World and golfdigest.com. My jurisdiction is now strictly travel.
I'm in the San Diego area three to four times a year. I've written about my oldest brother, Sean, and his family in Hawaii. My brother Mark and his family live in Valley Center, about 40 miles from downtown San Diego. Mark's best friend lives in La Jolla and my best friend going back to high school lives 10 minutes from the San Diego airport. Not only do I love the city, the baseball team, the weather and the golf but it's also home to a network of family and friends.
I'm a northern California guy by birth and I can't imagine anyone has had a better 13-year run in New York City (excluding Howard Stern, Mayor Bloomberg, Derek Jeter and Broadway) but if I were to live anywhere else other than Manhattan my first choice would be San Diego.
My brother Mark, much like my dad and my brother Sean, has always had a handicap anywhere from 16 to 26. My brother plays golf like he lives life--there's no such thing as a three-quarter swing. He has Tiger-like intensity and a deep, dark hatred of losing. That only adds to the younger brother joy of a victory. My brother's friend Doug Holmes has been roughly a 7-handicap for the last five years, and he's a member of San Diego Country Club. (In a recent Q&A, Padres pitcher Greg Maddux named San Diego C.C., home of Billy Casper, as his favorite course in San Diego). Last week my friend Todd Curran just broke 80 for the second time in his life but when we play what we call the "Grudge Match," Mark and Doug against Todd and me, Doug and I play even and Mark and Todd play even. We play a high-low nassau, two points per hole. The team that's down always has the option to press. The payouts have been as little as a dollar per man from the two losers, to as high as $250. The older we get, the less it's about the money and the more it's about bragging rights. Strange how that works because Mark and Doug are 10 years older than Todd and I and I think when we lost $250 each, we were probably worth a combined $490. That would've been a better time to have the bets be more about bragging rights.
The Grudge Match goes back more than 12 years and has been played more than 30 times. It's been at both good and bad golf courses. There have been chip-ins, chip-offs, and at times the conversation can be downright chippy. There have been broken clubs, clubs thrown into large bodies of water, and clubs that would rather the Grudge Match take place at an alternate venue. There have been silent treatments, handshakes and hugs at the end of these boys-will-be-boys battles. Regardless of the aggravation or outcome, in the end there's always anticipation for the next time.
Very rarely has a Grudge Match ever taken place anywhere but San Diego.
Golf Digest will feature a travel story about San Diego, Torrey Pines and good golf in the area in the upcoming June issue but here's an appetizer and some local perspective.
First an edited version of an e-mail I received recently. If you're still looking for lodging and a ticket for the Open (no I don't have any) this will serve as help with the lodging. I have not been there but I hear it's nice and it sounds like it's just down the street from Torrey Pines.
Estancia La Jolla Offers Guests Accessible and Accommodating Golf Services
LA JOLLA, California (April 2, 2008) – Selected by Condé
Nast Traveler as one of the "Hottest New Hotels in the World" upon its
opening in 2005 and as one of the "World's Best Places to Stay" in
2006, Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa is renowned as a coastal sensory retreat where
tradition, environment and design blend to renew and inspire in the
setting reminiscent of a sprawling early California ranch estate. Just
a "chip shot" away from Torrey Pines Golf Course, host of the 2008 US
Open, and a short stroll from the majestic coves, those seeking natural
beauty and renowned golf have discovered the perfect location. The
property features 210 cleverly aesthetic rooms (including 11 suites),
three restaurants, including Bodega wine bar, an 8,000 sq. ft. spa with
an adjacent fitness facility, an inviting pool deck with private
cabanas, and 25,000 sq. ft. of indoor and outdoor meeting and event
space.
Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa has partnered with San Diego Golf to launch a convenient new way for visitors to book golf reservations in "real-time". The first of its kind in San Diego, the sensory retreat is offering guests the ability to reserve tee-times for their favorite sport at eleven top courses in San Diego County, online either from home or from their guestroom.
Guests using this new electronic golf tool will not only have the capability to book tee times at various San Diego County courses, they will also have access to course information, pictures and recommendations. For more information please contact Estancia La Jolla at (858) 550-1000 or visit www.estancialajolla.com.
I called Estancia La Jolla Hotel and Spa. I was told they still have a limited supply of rooms available for June 11th-14th with a four-night minimum. "It will be a busy time but we do help guests with golf reservations," said Deborah Graham, a concierge at the hotel.
I suggest going to the page of their website that details the service they use to help a golfer get a tee time, San Diego Golf Reservations. They list 11 courses.
http://content.sdgr.com/estancialajolla/
I called my friend Todd and will pass on his comments about each of the 11 courses connected to Estancia and San Diego Golf Reservations. Todd's played 20 rounds this year. He’s one of the most athletic and positive people I've ever met. His wife and two daughters support his golf game and a few buddies trips every year. He has lived in San Diego for almost 20 years and he has played about 20 rounds since January 1st. He's forever in search of a great deal (back in high school he used to cobble together lunch by way of our leftovers instead of buying his own). Here are the 11 courses and his comments about each:
Arrowood: "Its new. There are some great holes. It tends to be windy but I'd say it’s a good young course."
Carlton Oaks: "One of my favorites. It's top 10 toughest in the area from the black tees. It's a well-kept secret. I highly recommend it."
CrossCreek: "It's in Temecula, which is over an hour from Torrey Pines. It's a good course with very few houses around if you’re willing to make the trip."
Eagle Crest: "Not a great course but a very good value."
Eastlake: "A notch above Eagle Crest. It has a lot of houses on the course but it's also a good value."
Maderas: "I've never played it but I hear it may not be worth the money unless you play twilight."
Riverwalk: "It's centrally located. It has three nines. Play Mission and Presidio and skip Friars if you're only playing 18."
Salt Creek: "It's a links course in the South County. The greens have matured and it offers good views. I'd play it more if it weren’t so far away. It’s about 40 minutes from Torrey Pines but people should look into the new toll road to try and get there faster."
Steele Canyon: "It's in my top 5 in San Diego, especially when considering the price. It has great vistas. It also has three nines. Play Canyon and Ranch, skip Meadow. My favorite of the 11 they've listed."
Twin Oaks: "I played it once. It's narrow. It wasn't memorable."
The Vineyard: "The front nine is pedestrian and crowded. Some holes are awkward but the back nine is gorgeous. It's a great value."
I asked Todd to name his favorite public course other than Torrey Pines and not on the list above.
Coronado Golf Club: "It's 20 to 25 minutes from Torrey Pines. It's across the Coronado Bridge (no toll). It's $25 to walk and a $13 twilight rate. There are great views, especially at 16 and 17. It's fantastic. I also use services to help me get a tee time. I suggest golfnow.com and savesomegreen.com. They can get you a tee time for a ridiculous price."
I'm a fan of Coronado, the San Diego C.C. and the Grudge Match.
See you in San Diego, just not the week of the Open.
--Matty G.
Captions (from top to bottom): My brothers Mark (left) and Sean at my parents' 50th wedding anniversary last year in San Diego; three shots of Estancia La Jolla Hotel and Spa; An aerial of Coronado Golf Course.


















I've only been to San Diego once in my life but made the most of it with rounds at SDCC, Palma Valley (is that right?), and Coronado.
Coronado was the class just for the ambiance and the low greens fee...what a gem!
Dear Matty G:
This is your big brother (by about 11 years, and 40 lbs) Mark'o.
I knew you when... you were just Matt'o, little brother to Sean'o and Mark'o, and friend to Todd'o and Dan'o. All of us, were so named by our Italian father. I love your new assignment and blogs, and was wondering if you'd be able to write about this San Diego brother. As I'm now married, and much more settled, I also appreciate your cleaning it up, and keeping it PG-rated.
As for great San Diego courses, you failed to mention our home course in Valley Center, Woods Valley, where I played the last two days twight for $20 (including cart). (Normal rates M-F are $45, and I wouldn't know weekend rates, because everyone knows weekend golf is too slow to bear.) During the summer, and the 100+ degrees, it's not for the faint-hearted, but you can't beat it for the user-friendly staff, and scenery. (There's houses, but they're way back, and I usually only hit those ones on the 18th hole.)
As for Coronado, of course it's excellent, but my favorite story there is how Bill Clinton came to town and "allegedly" engaged in a little lying and cheating about his score (see. http://terpsboy.com/Articles/billsbadlie.html.) (Imagine that, Bill Clinton, accused of lying and cheating about anything....shocking! Ask Hillary, I'm sure she thinks it's just "a vast right-wing conspiracy," ...or maybe, he "was under so much sniper fire", it was hard to tell the truth.)
Please tell your friend Todd (aka, "Tawdry"), that now that he's on your payroll, the next grudge match will be for some serious money.
Love,
Big Brothr Mark'0
P.s. My last round at woods valley, included 13 pars, one bird, one 10, and two nines, for a legit 85...and only one large club toss (when I scored the 10, on the 9th hole, after going into that hole even after 8. ...I "tin-cupped" the ninth, putting 2 in the water, trying to make my eagle 250 yd approach.) After I eventually dropped one short in front of the water, and still put my 100 yd sand wedge shot in the water, the wedge followed it.)
I was in San Diego last fall for a trade show and played three rounds. The first was Steele Canyon which was a lot fun and I would definately recommend the course. The second course was Barona Creek, which was fantastic. Make sure you sign up for a players club card at the casino to get a reduced rate. We were able to sign up right in the pro shop. This course was in great shape, it was only two or three weeks before the Nationwide Tour championship. We played only about three days before the fires last year. The last round I played was a twilight round at Torrey Pines. I played the South course and it only cost $87 to walk on as a sinlge. If you want to play Torrey Pines, go as a single and walk on when there is a spot availbale. It was unbelievable. This is something every serious golfer should definately do. It was a very tough course, but some of the views and shots were amazing. I shot an 84 from the blues tees and was very satisfied.
On 5/9/08 1:07 PM, "Larry Mayran" wrote:
Hi Matt- I just received your blogs and was especially taken with the anguish you experienced with your lost golf clubs.
Two weeks ago I had CNN out to Chateau Elan for their “Road Warrior” TV series. The central theme/trend was that more and more travelers are shipping their luggage and golf clubs to resort/golf destinations rather than taking them aboard the airlines. It may be slightly more expensive (albeit airlines are charging plenty for extra bags) but your clubs and luggage arrive intact (no bent drivers) and on time.
The next week I went to Longboat Key, FL and shipped my golf clubs UPS ground 2 day for slightly over $14. They were packaged perfectly and protected with lots of foam, plastic and arrived on time and in perfect shape. No hassle, no worry and I’m doing this method every time from now on.
All best
larry